Wednesday, April 19, 2006

3 red key flags to watch

In relationship both woman or man there's red key flags to be watch over :

#1: Over-reactionary:

Someone who is over-reactionary, jumps to
conclusions too fast or without all facts, and someone who is on
the "emotional" side of reasoning. This type of person can create a
lot of drama, hellacious fights, and will harp on even the "small
stuff" blowing everything out of proportion. They will always have
something that bothers them, their feelings will always get hurt,
and they will continuously create reasons to fight.
Over-reactionary people thrive on drama. They are "drama queens"
basically... and believe me, I have seen both male and female "drama
queens". They will accuse you of doing things that you have never
even thought of doing. They react with their emotions, and not with
facts.

#2: Impulsive:
Someone who changes their mind quickly & constantly,
takes actions without thinking, makes huge decisions without
thought of consequence, and has sudden uncontrollable urges. These
type of people are highly prone to cheat! They think in the moment
and not of the future. They also tend to have unstable careers,
always changing lifestyles & opinions, non-consistent parenting
skills, and will decide to leave & divorce you just as quick as
they decided to marry you or sleep with you.

#3: Extreme high/low mood-swings:
Someone who is overly happy one
moment, then either angry or in the depths of depression the next.
They have sporadic and ever-changing moods... and you never know what
you are going to get next. They also get mad and angered easily,
quickly, and unexpectedly. This will spark many fights, out of the
blue.... When you least expect them. It is not uncommon for someone
who is over-reactionary or impulsive to also have these high/low
mood swings. Many times they just come with the territory of
already being overly-emotional. People with high/low mood swings
can be very emotionally draining to be with and unsettling to be
with. You never know what side of them you are going to get, when
it is going to change, or when they will get mad, sad, happy, etc...

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