Just A words: I'm just want to be me..

Yesterday one of my old friend gave me a call. It's been a quite long time and suddenly we'll never know that we could hear the voice of our old friend. She said she got my number from my ex-girlfriend, the sweet Zati.

After a quite talk and chat there's some interesting topics came to surface. It's about her and his fiancee. She said that she actually getting bored with her job and asked for my opinion. I've said as usual if you're already getting another job then she could leave her former job or else. She said that her fiancee asked her to quit and help him with his business. Finally she just doing nothing because she's not into that business. So that actually made their relationship a little bit bitter.

For me what his fiancee did what absolutely good intention. But she's not really agree with it. So i've asked what's really the problem? She said that even it was a good intention but she's actually wanted to be out from the bad situation but not to make him altered her entire life.

What's she wanted is going back to work and find the purpose but it doesnt to have to be the same job. A job of some sort gives her purpose.

the favorite advice i heard from her was " You can NOT take a woman and decide you are going to "change her life for the better" by getting her to quite her job, alter her entire lifestyle, and become someone who she is not. "

It's something interesting facts actually when man like us didn't really noticed. So i talked to her the best thing to do is keep discussing with her fiancee because everything is best to work it out together face to face.

Sometimes we're not paying so much attention to little things..