++ this year i will limited my freelance job and just focusing towards my interest. I've given all the percent of comic to the people that should learn about partnership, management and appreciation. Hope with this 100% responsibility will wake them up from their sleep that to do business is not so easy like it seemed.
++ there's a lot think happen early this year. and we can see who are our real friend not because of fame,position or money. The most bad people is people who be friend because of you can give them something nad left you when they're think they can survive alone.
++ this year also i've realized whose i should love more and who i've to ignore...some pretty diamonds sometimes it's just a trash inside of it. ANd some people they're just like to acting because they're afraid to show waht they really are. No matter how it's gonna be life's is a big stage. And sometimes we've to act acccording to the situation. But a good director will know it. Some people they're coming to you when they've problem and left when it's over. Some of them will always be with us in whatever situation we had.. and that's the real friend..
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Monday, January 30, 2006
Thursday, January 26, 2006
the Republic of Shah Alam 6 : Eyes to see,ears to listen & Minds to think
++ from now on i'll not tolerate to some of them. no more discussion about work at night. I'll spare this time to relaxed because some people they've never leran to respect others. So it's time for them to learn and flexible to others.
++ Some have been given eyes but wouldn't see clearly after listening and take it all inside their minds without thinking..So this is the disease i've talked about dear Elita.. The disease you've asked me about.. Because GOD create eyes for us to deeply see, ears to us deeply listen and mind for us to think. So if we misuse of this creation and the result is not really what its should.
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++ Some have been given eyes but wouldn't see clearly after listening and take it all inside their minds without thinking..So this is the disease i've talked about dear Elita.. The disease you've asked me about.. Because GOD create eyes for us to deeply see, ears to us deeply listen and mind for us to think. So if we misuse of this creation and the result is not really what its should.
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Tuesday, January 24, 2006
the Sacred Cave II : Fool rush in
++ Some people they're never appreaciate what they have. Some of them really greed but when they're in misery, they're ask for help and when they're in a good situation they're forgot to thanx. Some people they're just don't know about dealing in business and thought it's not fair and never see through the other side...for this people i'll be leaving them from my life. It's not good to stay with the disease.
Monday, January 23, 2006
the fountain of Youth II: tips on spotting a liar
Let's say you were born yesterday and gullible is your middle name, here are some things to look out for to tell if someone is lying:
1) The eyes. Read the eyes. If they fidget, if they dilate, it's a huge heads up. If the guy keeps looking down, looking away, and never in your eyes, you've nailed him.
2) If he covers his mouth or any part of his face.
3) The Feds say that when a guy touches his nose, he's lying. I don't buy it, but you never see a wiseguy scratching and sniffing his nose while being questioned.
4) If he moves from side to side too much, to distract your attention from the subject at hand.
5) Stuttering, correcting himself (if it happened to you, you know exactly what happened, you don't need to correct yourself).
6) If his story has very little details and he keeps repeating the same facts, trying to convince himself. The guy is as vague as a lawyer when asked why he is charging you $500 a hour.
7) The story is very complicated and distorted, to cause confusion.
8) Changes subjects often, tries to veer conversation, deflects questions or doesn't answer questions.
9) Is overly defensive when questioned, uses "don't you trust me?" line.
10) They don't hear the question. What? Did wax build up in your ears in the last 10 seconds? They are buying time to get creative when they ask you to repeat yourself.
11) The details change a few days later (again, when something happens to you and you are not inventing, you remember the details in the same way over and over again). Ask a guy a few years later about a story and you'll really catch a mountain of lies.
That's it.
Watch your backs and keep your noses clean.
tips from Mr. Mafioso from askmen.com
1) The eyes. Read the eyes. If they fidget, if they dilate, it's a huge heads up. If the guy keeps looking down, looking away, and never in your eyes, you've nailed him.
2) If he covers his mouth or any part of his face.
3) The Feds say that when a guy touches his nose, he's lying. I don't buy it, but you never see a wiseguy scratching and sniffing his nose while being questioned.
4) If he moves from side to side too much, to distract your attention from the subject at hand.
5) Stuttering, correcting himself (if it happened to you, you know exactly what happened, you don't need to correct yourself).
6) If his story has very little details and he keeps repeating the same facts, trying to convince himself. The guy is as vague as a lawyer when asked why he is charging you $500 a hour.
7) The story is very complicated and distorted, to cause confusion.
8) Changes subjects often, tries to veer conversation, deflects questions or doesn't answer questions.
9) Is overly defensive when questioned, uses "don't you trust me?" line.
10) They don't hear the question. What? Did wax build up in your ears in the last 10 seconds? They are buying time to get creative when they ask you to repeat yourself.
11) The details change a few days later (again, when something happens to you and you are not inventing, you remember the details in the same way over and over again). Ask a guy a few years later about a story and you'll really catch a mountain of lies.
That's it.
Watch your backs and keep your noses clean.
tips from Mr. Mafioso from askmen.com
the Fountain Of Youth I: how to raise eq
Unlike IQ, EQ can be significantly raised. But it takes effort and a great deal of introspection. You need to be willing to rewire your brain and how you perceive and react to situations.
Here's a rough beginner's guide to becoming emotionally savvy.
1- Identify your feelings
Constantly tell yourself how you feel, with the three-word sentence "I feel..." If you feel mixed emotions, try to single them out, and rate their intensity ("I feel disturbed" or "I feel enraged"). Don't exaggerate or minimize them.
2- Take responsibility for your feelings
Don't look for external explanations for how you feel or make yourself the victim. Recognize that they're your feelings and try to understand why you feel this way.
3- Anticipate your feelings
Learn to recognize how you will feel after a certain event or action. Avoid doing things that you know will inspire negative feelings. Do this not only for yourself, but for others.
4- Ask people how they feel
You want to be able to tell how people feel without asking them. However, you have to first understand them before you can empathize with them. Listen to them without making judgments. Don't try to dismiss or invalidate their feelings.
5- Be less defensive
If someone says something about you that you disagree with, don't get defensive or attack them back -- these kinds of reactions demonstrate that you can't handle criticism. Instead, thank them for their honesty and focus on the validity of their comments.
6- Put problems into perspective
When setbacks happen and you feel the urge to get angry, think about how serious the setback really is. How much will the issue matter in 10 years? In 10 weeks? In 10 minutes?
resources from www.askmen.com
Here's a rough beginner's guide to becoming emotionally savvy.
1- Identify your feelings
Constantly tell yourself how you feel, with the three-word sentence "I feel..." If you feel mixed emotions, try to single them out, and rate their intensity ("I feel disturbed" or "I feel enraged"). Don't exaggerate or minimize them.
2- Take responsibility for your feelings
Don't look for external explanations for how you feel or make yourself the victim. Recognize that they're your feelings and try to understand why you feel this way.
3- Anticipate your feelings
Learn to recognize how you will feel after a certain event or action. Avoid doing things that you know will inspire negative feelings. Do this not only for yourself, but for others.
4- Ask people how they feel
You want to be able to tell how people feel without asking them. However, you have to first understand them before you can empathize with them. Listen to them without making judgments. Don't try to dismiss or invalidate their feelings.
5- Be less defensive
If someone says something about you that you disagree with, don't get defensive or attack them back -- these kinds of reactions demonstrate that you can't handle criticism. Instead, thank them for their honesty and focus on the validity of their comments.
6- Put problems into perspective
When setbacks happen and you feel the urge to get angry, think about how serious the setback really is. How much will the issue matter in 10 years? In 10 weeks? In 10 minutes?
resources from www.askmen.com
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